“软饭丑男”吴建豪，硬汉背后的故事，实力与形象的双重反转_Who_out_face

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Who would've guessed that when Wu Jianhao made his grand return to the screen, he’d be slapped in the face right out of the gate?

In The Parrot, he gets ridiculed by Mr. Lü, who tells him all he does is smile and lick up to the boss. Wu’s face freezes—like a smile that’s about to snap someone’s neck. It’s terrifying in the best way, like he’s plotting a slow revenge with each subtle muscle movement. But does he flip out? Nope. Instead, he delivers a cold line:

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“If you’re not happy with me, feel free to file a complaint.”

When told that none of his projects are passing, his reply is cool as a cucumber: “Let’s see about that.”

And when Lü slaps him, what does Wu do? Calmly picks up his glasses, adjusts them like nothing happened, and takes his time putting them back on. His subordinate can’t hold it in, venting about how Wu’s too nice to let people walk all over him. Wu just smiles and says, “It’s nothing.”

Drama wraps up, and—bam—he’s right back at it, sending out a “dead order,” and suddenly, Lü’s gone for good.

It’s classic Wu Jianhao: the master of the slow burn. He’s all about that soft-spoken front, but behind that smile, he’s ready to slice through problems like a hot knife through butter.

And in real life? Same story. Wu doesn’t care what people say. He’s tough, no matter how you slice it.

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Wu Jianhao’s appearance? It’s been a subject of ahem... discussion.

When Meteor Garden exploded across Asia, Wu—playing the role of Mei Zuo—was crowned “the least handsome of F4.” He’s got single eyelids, a long face, and a mop of hair that’s been likened to a horse’s mane. A far cry from the movie-star looks the world often worships. He even got compared to the \"Donkey-face\" actor Zhang Yi, which, well… not exactly the best comparison.

But Wu’s response? Classic. He’s unbothered, cool as a cucumber:

“I’m an artist, not an idol.”

There it is. No fake smiles or manufactured charm. Wu Jianhao isn’t about looking pretty for the cameras; he’s about raw talent and authenticity. He lets his work speak for itself.

Take Young Ah Tiger—no martial arts background whatsoever, but he snagged a nomination for Best New Actor at the 23rd Hong Kong Film Awards for his role as Zheng Jianbang.

In Next Stop, Happiness, Wu broke the mold of the “charming male lead” by adding his own twist. He wasn’t just good-looking; he was compelling.

While fame and recognition are often seen as blessings, Wu? He saw them as chains. \"When you become an image, you lose yourself,\" he said.

When his contract expired, he took a breather—stopping work to reflect on his future. What did he decide? To blaze his own trail, on his own terms. He re-entered the spotlight, this time fully reshaped.

He dove into his passions—singing and dancing—releasing new albums every year and participating in every variety show under the sun. Who could forget his fiery energy on Street Dance of China, where he straight-up told dancers to \"shut up\"? That’s Wu Jianhao: no filter, no sugar-coating.

On Chase the Light! Brothers, he wore a blue suit and hit the stage with an MJ-inspired routine that had the internet swooning.

But don’t stop there. He’s done it all. From producing TV shows and directing music videos to challenging himself with Star Jump Water Cube—a diving show—despite having zero experience. Ice skating, shooting, car racing, you name it. He’s tried it all.

Oh, and he even published a comic book and livestreams while sewing pants. Yeah, you read that right. Who thought Wu Jianhao would surprise us with a needle and thread?

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Wu Jianhao might not have been the hottest trend, but his career is still going strong. He’s built his own streetwear brand, and don’t even get me started on his livestreams. The man’s a legend in his own right. One hour of broadcasting? He’s crushing the internet with billions of views.

And Wu’s livestreams? Let’s just say they’re different. While others plug links, Wu’s out there camping, jamming to music, eating BBQ, and casually sharing fashion tips or teaching English on the side. Classic Wu.

But here’s the kicker—Wu’s personal life hasn’t exactly been smooth sailing. His ex-wife, Shi Zhen Shan, is from one of Singapore's wealthiest families. They even said her net worth was in the billions. Of course, this led to some less-than-flattering rumors. Wu was often referred to as the “kept man.”

But here’s the thing: Wu didn’t care. He didn’t let her wealth or background make him feel inferior. No matter the relationship drama, Wu stood his ground.

Their marriage, though, was like a rollercoaster. After a year of long-distance dating, they broke up. Then, after a few years, they rekindled their romance. The relationship was on again, off again, for seven years, eventually culminating in marriage in 2013.

Things took a dark turn when, in 2014, Shi Zhen Shan called out Wu publicly on Instagram, saying the man she saw on TV was fake. Wu didn’t back down, firing back with “mind your tongue.” The rumors of marriage trouble swirled, and by 2018, they officially divorced.

Regardless of who was at fault, that chapter closed.

Now, at 47, Wu Jianhao has only gotten better with age. He’s got confidence, humility, and—let’s be real—he still looks great. Whether in the spotlight or not, he’s living life on his terms. He’s got that balance of effort and joy that everyone secretly craves.

And you know what? Wu’s philosophy is simple: “Work hard on the way up, and enjoy the way down.” In his world, both the grind and the moments of joy deserve equal attention. Doing what you love is what keeps you going.

So when he returned to the screen? It’s not just a comeback—it’s Wu Jianhao, still doing what he loves, unapologetically.

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